To achieve Step 9, individuals will show that they can use their tone, expression and gesture to engage listeners with what they are saying.
In Step 6, the concepts of tone, expression and gesture were introduced. This step goes much further than that by focusing on how to use tone, expression and gesture to speak engagingly.
The building blocks of this step are learning:
As a reminder of Step 6:
Tone: We can refer to this way that something is said. This tone varies by several dimensions:
Expression is how your face communicates information to whoever you are speaking to. By moving our faces in different ways, we convey a range of emotions from joy to disgust.
A gesture is a movement of the body which means something.
When we are listening, we are building up an understanding of what is being communicated. This understanding is not just from the words themselves, but also how they are being said and the way someone is moving their body and their face. When we listen, we take clues from each of these to build up our understanding of what someone is communicating.
As a general rule, you should think about what emotion you want your listeners to feel, and ensure that your facial expressions support that.
Normally, if you are sharing information, you will want to keep an expression of being interested and enthused.
However, sometimes you might be trying to get your listeners to have a different response – perhaps you want them to be shocked, surprised or embarrassed. In each case, how your facial expression changes will influence how they feel about the words you are saying.
If you are speaking for an extended period, you might want to think about how to create variety through what you are saying. For example, you might want your audience to be initially puzzled by a problem you pose, then surprised by some facts that you share, then excited when you show a solution.
Generally, gestures are also a way of conveying emotion but we are often less aware of them than we are of our facial expressions.
Normally, if talking we want to show an openness and interest in what we are saying – in which case, we want to face the people we are speaking to, use open gestures with our hands and use eye contact to show engagement.
However, as with facial expression, sometimes you are looking for a different emotional response from your audience and it can be helpful to model that with how you use gesture.
In school or college, there are many opportunities to speak or present to others. We may aim to interest and engage people in a subject we have studied and share our enthusiasm or we may aim to persuade others, for example, senior staff or student council. In each situation the use of tone, expression and gesture will need to be varied according to the message you are trying to impart and the reason for the talk. You may need to talk with passion and enthusiasm at about something you feel strongly about at a student council meeting, but calmly and respectfully in an assembly.
When speaking to colleagues,clients or customers, care is required to ensure you use a tone, expression and gesture to match the circumstances of the situation. Fun, vibrant and loud speech may be very engaging and interesting at lunch break with colleagues but a more measured approach or even a variety of approaches might be called for when presenting new ideas to management or potential clients.
The use of appropriate tone,expression or gestures can ensure the listener understands the meaning of your words and is totally engaged with the content. Friends who know you well will have an even greater understanding of your meaning and are likely to fully engage with the subject and possibly replicate your mood. However, with people less known to you, in shops, on public transport or at sports matches and concerts, there is a need to be more considered with your tone, expression and gestures if you are to engage the listener. The listener is more likely to disengage if any features are inappropriate for the purpose.
To best practise this step of Speaking, apply what you have learnt to a real-life situation. Choose one or more of the activities below, remind yourself of the key points and strategies in the step, and have a go!
To teach this step:
This step lends itself well to reinforcement in the setting of a classroom. Learners can be reminded of how they might use their tone, expression and gesture before giving presentations or speaking in front of their peers.
Opportunities like presentations, assemblies, shows or other events can help learners practice using these elements to make their speaking as compelling as possible.
This step is best assessed through observation of a structured exercise. For example:
This step is relevant to people who use extended verbal communication to engage or persuade others in the course of their work.
To build this step in the work environment, managers could:
There are plenty of opportunities for building this skill in the workplace:
For those already employed, this step can be assessed through observation or asking customers or colleagues to supply feedback on an individual. For instance:
During the recruitment process, this step could be assessed by:
We work with a wide range of organisations, who use the Skills Builder approach in lots of different settings – from youth clubs, to STEM organisations, to careers and employability providers.
We have a lot of materials available to support you to use the Skills Builder Universal Framework with the individuals you work with, including:
We also do a lot of work with organisations who join the Skills Builder Partnership to build the Universal Framework into their work and impact measurement systems. You can find out a lot more using the links below.
At home, you can easily support your child to build their essential skills. The good news is that there
are lots of ways that you can have a big impact, including: